Don’t cry

Luke 7:11-17

Key Verse 13

When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her and he said, “Don’t cry.”

1. Read verses 11 - 13. What happens when Jesus went to Nain? (11, 12) What do you think about the difference between a crowd with Jesus and a crowd with a widow? How sad might a widow have been due to her deceased son? How does Jesus feel for her and what does he say to her? (13) Why do you think Jesus says, “Don’t cry?”

2. Read verses 14 - 15. How does Jesus raise a dead young man? (14) What can we learn from Jesus who says, “Young man, I say to you, get up!” What happens to the dead man? (15a) What do you think of Jesus who gives him back to her?

3. Read verses 16 and 17. How do people praise God? (16) How far does the news about Jesus spread? (17)

Don’t cry

Luke 7:11-17

Key Verse 13

When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her and he said, “Don’t cry.”

Introduction

Some scientists believe that only humans shed tears in response to emotional states, while others disagree. As we studied earlier, the author Luke gives a special position to women throughout the book. This story is shown only in Luke’s gospel among synoptic gospels. The key verse indicates that Jesus’ heart went out to her and he said, “Don’t cry.” May the Lord help us to learn of Jesus’ compassionate heart towards her. May we also learn how to serve sorrowful people like her in our generation.

1. Read verses 11 - 13. What happens when Jesus went to Nain? (11, 12) What do you think about the difference between a crowd with Jesus and a crowd with a widow? How sad might a widow have been due to her deceased son? How does Jesus feel for her and what does he say to her? (13) Why do you think Jesus says, “Don’t cry?”

1-1, Read verses 11 - 13.

11 Soon afterward, Jesus went to a town called Nain, and his disciples and a large crowd went along with him. 12 As he approached the town gate, a dead person was being carried out—the only son of his mother, and she was a widow. And a large crowd from the town was with her. 13 When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her and he said, “Don’t cry.”

1-2, What happens when Jesus went to Nain? (11, 12)

11 Soon afterward, Jesus went to a town called Nain, and his disciples and a large crowd went along with him. 12 As he approached the town gate, a dead person was being carried out—the only son of his mother, and she was a widow. And a large crowd from the town was with her.

“Soon afterward” indicates that Jesus traveled to Nain after he had helped the Centurion in Capernaum. Nain is located about 20 miles south of Capernaum.

Jesus’ companions and a large crowd had seen the power and authority of Jesus’ words in helping the servant of the centurion.

1-3, What do you think about the difference between a crowd with Jesus and a crowd with a widow?

There are two processions: Jesus’ disciples, and a large crowd went along with Jesus. It was a procession that paraded the joy of true humanity and the joy of heaven stirred up by the faith of a stranger, the centurion. However there was another procession. It was a funeral procession. Beginning with the widowed woman, all were swallowed up by the power of death and became sorrowful and fatalistic. This is a human tragedy without the Risen Jesus.

1-4, How sad might a widow have been due to her deceased son?

Her son was brought up without a father. He must have been a good child to his mom. In fact he meant the whole world to her. One day he was either sick or injured and died. Nothing is more sorrowful than this funeral procession for this mother for her only son.

1-5, How does Jesus feel for her and what does he say to her? (13)

When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her and he said, “Don’t cry.”

This means that Jesus felt her pain and sorrow. Our God is merciful and compassionate. He knows our hearts and feels our pain and sorrow too.

There is a saying, “ A tear is a woman’s potent weapon.”

According to the German Society of Ophthalmology, which has collated different scientific studies on crying, women cry on average between 30 and 64 times a year, and men cry on average between 6 and 17 times per year. Men tend to cry for between two and four minutes, and women cry for about six minutes. Crying turns into sobbing for women in 65% of cases, compared to just 6% for men. - from wikipedia

However, Jesus was not merely sorry for her out of sympathy for the tears of a widowed woman. Rather he was sorry when he saw a pitiful widow crying over her only son’s death.

Jesus was even more sorrowful when he saw that the woman was overcome by the power of death. Jesus was seized with great pity for the widowed woman and for the sorrowful procession.

• We also see how Jesus felt about death and why Jesus wept in the Bible.

**John 11:32-35 **

When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. 34 “Where have you laid him?” he asked. “Come and see, Lord,” they replied. 35 Jesus wept.

“Weeping” (the word used for Mary and the Jews) is a loud wailing, while “wept”(the word to describe Jesus’ expression of grief) is a quiet weeping. Jesus is greatly moved, but not out of control. Jesus is not unfeeling(apathetic), but with strong feeling. He prepares to strike a blow against death, the enemy of both God and man. Jesus is a passionate enemy of death.

Jesus was deeply moved in spirit and even troubled. Jesus is angry and troubled at the ravages of the great enemy of man: death. He simply couldn’t tolerate and as the King of kings and the Lord of lords he won’t settle for this weird domination of death much longer.

John 11:35 is the shortest verse, but one of the most suggestive verse in the entire Bible. What a powerful expression of our Lord Jesus Christ! The great wrath against death is demonstrated into tears of love, of sympathy, and of deep emotion.

**Isaiah 25:8**

He will swallow up death forever. The Sovereign LORD will wipe away the tears from all faces; he will remove his people's disgrace from all the earth. The LORD has spoken.

**Hosea 13:14a**

“I will deliver this people from the power of the grave; I will redeem them from death. Where, O death, are your plagues? Where, O grave, is your destruction?”

**Luke 19:41**

“As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it”

1-6, Why do you think Jesus says, “Don’t cry”?

Jesus’ compassion went out to the widow and he said, “Don’t cry.” No one would dare say anything to the widow because no word could comfort her. It was better not to say anything but just mourn with her. This might be what a caring neighbor could do at best.

But Jesus said, “Don’t cry.” This does not mean that she should stop crying in spite of her sorrow, but that Jesus would solve her source of sorrow and pain. How?

Jesus wants to help her believe in the Son of Man. To Jesus, she has no reason to cry. She cries because she does not know the Son of Man and she has no faith in Jesus who is the resurrection and the life.

Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?” - John 11:25-26

1. Read verses 14 - 15. How does Jesus raise a dead young man? (14) What can we learn from Jesus who says, “Young man, I say to you, get up!” What happens to the dead man? (15a) What do you think of Jesus who gives him back to her?

2-1, Read verses 14 - 15.

14 Then he went up and touched the bier they were carrying him on, and the bearers stood still. He said, “Young man, I say to you, get up!” 15 The dead man sat up and began to talk, and Jesus gave him back to his mother.

2-2, How does Jesus raise a dead young man? (14)

Then he went up and touched the bier they were carrying him on, and the bearers stood still.

First of all Jesus stopped the funeral procession. Then he went up and touched the coffin, where the dead body was - it was the source of sorrow and pain.

Likewise, Jesus wants to stop the process of sorrow and touch the source of our pain. May God also help us to stop and let Jesus touch the source of our pain and sorrow.

2-3, What can we learn from Jesus who says, “Young man, I say to you, get up!”

Jesus said the dead body, “Young man, I say to you get up!” The dead body is cold because there is no blood and life in him. To a human being, there is no more hope for the dead body to get up and walk again.

But to Jesus, it was different. He could call the dead body a ‘young man’ again. He commanded the dead body as if it were alive - but sleeping, saying, “get up.”

Who is Jesus that he commands even the dead to get up? Jesus is the Lord of

creation. He is the author of life.

“For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him.” - Colossians 1:16

Therefore, Jesus can give life again to the dead. He can call the dead, “get up.”

** See Ezekiel 37:1-14 ** The hand of the Lord was on me, and he brought me out by the Spirit of the Lord and set me in the middle of a valley; it was full of bones. 2 He led me back and forth among them, and I saw a great many bones on the floor of the valley, bones that were very dry. 3 He asked me, “Son of man, can these bones live?” I said, “Sovereign Lord, you alone know.” 4 Then he said to me, “Prophesy to these bones and say to them, ‘Dry bones, hear the word of the Lord! 5 This is what the Sovereign Lord says to these bones: I will make breath enter you, and you will come to life. 6 I will attach tendons to you and make flesh come upon you and cover you with skin; I will put breath in you, and you will come to life. Then you will know that I am the Lord.’” 7 So I prophesied as I was commanded. And as I was prophesying, there was a noise, a rattling sound, and the bones came together, bone to bone. 8 I looked, and tendons and flesh appeared on them and skin covered them, but there was no breath in them. 9 Then he said to me, “Prophesy to the breath; prophesy, son of man, and say to it, ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: Come, breath, from the four winds and breathe into these slain, that they may live.’” 10 So I prophesied as he commanded me, and breath entered them; they came to life and stood up on their feet—a vast army. 11 Then he said to me: “Son of man, these bones are the people of Israel. They say, ‘Our bones are dried up and our hope is gone; we are cut off.’ 12 Therefore prophesy and say to them: ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: My people, I am going to open your graves and bring you up from them; I will bring you back to the land of Israel. 13 Then you, my people, will know that I am the Lord, when I open your graves and bring you up from them. 14 I will put my Spirit in you and you will live, and I will settle you in your own land. Then you will know that I the Lord have spoken, and I have done it, declares the Lord.’”

2-4, What happens to the dead man? (15a)

At the command of Jesus, the dead body began to have new flesh and blood. The young man broke the coffin and came out.

2-5, What do you think of Jesus who gives him back to her?

Jesus does not call this young man to follow Him, but gives him back to his mother, the widow. In this way how happy must she have been to have her only son back from the dead! Who knows, perhaps later this young man may be a disciple of Jesus to serve the kingdom purpose with her thanks and prayer.

1. Read verses 16 and 17. How do people praise God? (16) How far does the news about Jesus spread? (17)

3-1, Read verses 16 and 17.

16 They were all filled with awe and praised God. “A great prophet has appeared among us,” they said. “God has come to help his people.” 17 This news about Jesus spread throughout Judea and the surrounding country.

3-2, How do people praise God? (16)

“A great prophet has appeared among us,” they said. “God has come to help his people.”

**See 1 Corinthians 15:54b-58**

“Death has been swallowed up in victory.” “Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?” The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.”

3-3, How far does the news about Jesus spread? (17)

This news about Jesus spread throughout Judea and the surrounding country.

In Conclusion

Praise Jesus whose heart is full of compassion. Do you have anything or anyone that make you sorrowful? Do you feel like the dead young man? Do you feel hopeless and helpless, making you sorrowful? May God open your heart so that Jesus can stop that thought process and let Jesus’ words touch the very source of sorrow. May we listen to his voice, “Young man, I tell you get up,” and we may serve young campus students to get up from their shadow of death and come to our compassionate Savior and the power of His words. Amen.

One word: Young man, I tell you get up!

HOPE WHEN THERE IS NO HOPE

Luke 7:11-17 Key Verse 7:13

“When the Lord saw her, His heart went out to her and He said, “Don’t cry.”

In today’s passage we see a tragic story. But in reality it’s the most beautiful story. A widow whose only son died was coming out of the town of Nain in a funeral procession going to the cemetery to bury her only son. Jesus was coming into the town with a large procession of people, including His disciples following Him. One was a procession of death, the other a procession of happiness and joy at what Jesus had done for the Centurion’s servant. They were following the Good Shepherd. And these two processions collided at the door step of the city. The widow was in great sorrow at the loss of her son. And when Jesus saw her, He had compassion on her and said, “Don’t cry.”

In today’s passage we learn the amazing one sided grace of our Lord. This passage glaringly contrasts for last week’s message. In last week’s passage we see the man with the greatest faith that Jesus had ever seen. He asked Jesus to just say the Word and his servant would be healed. This Centurion’s faith reveals that we have every reason to put our faith in Jesus. It reveals that Jesus has power and authority by His Word alone. His Word has the power to heal people of any sickness, or disease. It reveals that we should have such faith. But in reality who has such faith as this Centurion? The truth is no one. The great doctor Luke uses today’s passage to caution us not to become too discouraged if our faith is not up to the level of this Centurion. Luke commends the Centurions faith and highlights it, that we too would have such faith. But in truth we all fall far short of this man’s great faith.

The great doctor Luke at the same time cautions us not to become too proud thinking that we have some way to earn or merit God’s compassion or mercy. I think Dr. Luke understood something very important for us to know. Doctors often are credited for saving people’s lives because of their expertise and training. Doctors spend long hours studying the human body and what makes it tick. But a real honest doctor will tell you that when someone gets well, it really isn’t them who heals the patient. The get the credit, but in reality doctors are very, very limited in what they can and can’t do for the patient. That is not to dismiss doctors, thank God for them! But in reality doctors perhaps get too much credit for what they do and perhaps enjoy the credit too much as well.

In today’s passage see someone who is so different than the Centurion. The Centurion was clear headed and professional and calm; but this woman was drowning in the tidal wave of her sorrow, grief and anguish. This woman did not pray to Jesus. She did not exhibit any faith of any kind. It’s important to note that in Jesus’ life, He only raised three people from the dead. One of them was Lazarus. The brother of Martha and Mary. It seems understandable to us why Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead. No one could deny that Jesus loved these three. Those who saw Jesus weep when He came to Lazarus exclaimed, “See how he loves Lazarus!” It’s understandable that Jesus would do such a thing for them. Another time Jesus healed the daughter of Jairus, who was a synagogue ruler. He had a position of respect and dignity and authority. But when his daughter was on death’s doorstep, he ran to Jesus and fell at his knees and earnestly pleaded with Jesus to touch his daughter that she would be well. But by Mark’s account by the time Jesus got to her, the young girl had died. Jesus raised her from the dead. Jairus’ humility and earnest pleading on the behalf of his daughter makes it understandable why Jesus rose this young girl from the dead. The third raising from the dead is today’s account. But this account is so different. This woman had done nothing. She was not a friend of Jesus’; she did not exhibit great faith in Jesus; she had not run to Jesus and fall on her knees and plead earnestly for her son. Actually, the only thing she did was cry. It was the only thing she could do. Her hope had run out for her son and her family and for herself. Her life was a complete barren wasteland. But it wasn’t always like this.

This woman had come from the city of Nain. The name of the city Nain means pleasant. This name reminds us of another widow, Naomi, the mother-in-law of Ruth. Naomi means pleasantness. Nain\Naomi- have the same root word for pleasant. Naomi like this woman had her husband die and also her son, actually Naomi had two sons die. I would like to read several verses from the book of Ruth 1:12-13, “¹² Return home, my daughters; I am too old to have another husband. Even if I thought there was still hope for me—even if I had a husband tonight and then gave birth to sons— ¹³ would you wait until they grew up? Would you remain unmarried for them? No, my daughters. It is more bitter for me than for you, because the Lord’s hand has turned against me!”

And Ruth 1:20-21. “Don’t call me Naomi,” she told them. “Call me Mara, because the Almighty has made my life very bitter. ²¹ I went away full, but the Lord has brought me back empty. Why call me Naomi? The Lord has afflicted me; the Almighty has brought misfortune upon me.” The name Mara means bitter. Naomi at one time thought of her life as full. She had everything she could have wanted. She lived under the blessing of God and she realized it. But now she confessed her life was empty. She had no hope. The woman in today’s passage was just like Naomi. Once her life looked full. When she was a young woman she married a prince charming. He was handsome and intelligent and funny. Then she had a cute and energetic baby boy, who grew up healthy and strong. He probably was one of the team captains of the wrestling team at the local high school; all the girls liked him, with his bulging muscles and confident demeanor. Her life looked so pleasant and full. But then her husband died. And a part of her died with him. It broke her heart, she loved her husband. But she still had hope on her life. She still had her lovely son. All her life’s efforts were not in vain. Her son still lived and with him all her hopes were now squarely placed on him. But tragically he died. It wasn’t supposed to be that way. Children are supposed to bury their parents; parents are not supposed to bury their children. In one instant, this woman’s life went from full to empty. All her hope evaporated. All that was left was bitterness, emptiness and sorrow. This was the condition of this woman. There was no great faith, there were no great deeds, and there were no mighty prayers, like we see in so many of the other healings Jesus did for people. There was only tears.

And yet, our Lord saw this woman and had compassion on her and raised her son from the dead. This story is not a story of this woman, this story is the story of our Lord, who He really is. Our Lord is the compassionate One. He is the One who is merciful. Sometimes we misunderstand and think we can earn God’s mercy or compassion. If we exhibit great faith or pray night and day. We think we kind of deserve God to show mercy and compassion on us. But in reality His mercy and compassion are completely and wholly one sided and one sided alone. Ex. 33:19 reads, “I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion.” We never did anything to merit or deserve God’s mercy or compassion. The Bible says, “While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” It was His love alone that rescued us. The Centurion had great faith, greater than anyone’s, but it wasn’t his faith that healed his servant. It was Jesus’ mercy and compassion to hear his request and answer it. Again, this passage reveals who Jesus truly is. Jesus could have easily walked right on by this funeral procession and not said a word. But when he saw this woman’s grief and sorrow and that all hope for her life was gone, He had compassion on her. He could not just walk on by. This reveals a great truth for us. When our hope is gone, there is still hope. Actually, it’s the only true hope there ever really was. The hope when all hope is gone is Jesus’ compassion. We mistakenly believe that our hope lies somewhere in something we have or have done. But in truth true hope comes from one place and one place alone, Jesus’ compassion and mercy and love. That has always been our true hope.

There are many servants of God who have devoted themselves to our Lord’s service. They have offered everything in serving Him. Their lives were full and God’s favor was upon them. And there are several servants I know personally who are like this woman. I know one woman who cried in front of me because of her son. She loves her son so dearly and cries for him because he is wayward. Her son confessed to me that he put to death the person his mother wanted him to become. With his own mouth he confessed this. This woman shared with me that when she first was a missionary her life was so full of joy and happiness. But now she cried in front of me for her son.

I know another missionary family whose son made his mother cry. He took a short vacation without his parents’ approval. I heard she cried and cried for her lovely son. I know another young woman who every time she shares her testimony in public cries and cries. It’s because of her husband. I know a young man who is filled with fear over his school studies, it paralyzes him and he can only see his life as a failure. I know another man, fat, bald and talks a lot. He became 50 recently and depression began to set in for him over his life. What they call a mid-life crisis. When he looked back on his life it looked like nothing good came of it. He thought his life was empty. He had a hope that his oldest son would marry by faith a woman of God. But this man’s fear overtook him and he couldn’t overcome it. This man cried in front of his son and wife. I know a woman who has faithfully studied the Bible with her student for years and he seemingly doesn’t change at all. She has served and loved this student, but nothing changes with him. She served another young man, who rose up to become a Bible teacher and shepherd, but eventually he ran away because of his disagreements with the direction of our ministry. I know many coworkers who have broken relationships with their children and their spouses and with one another and with their flock. At one time our lives looked so sweet, so full, so blessed. But for many we have experienced such heartache and pain and grief in our lives that all hope has left us. All that’s left is the tears. We prayed, we exerted our faith, but sometimes it looks like nothing helps the situation.

So where do we find hope when there is no longer any hope? It’s in Jesus’ compassion alone. Our hope comes from who Jesus is, not who we are or what we have done.

When Jesus saw this woman, his heart went out to her. He told her, “Don’t cry.” Jesus tells each of us, who are experiencing similar things, “Don’t cry.” But Jesus’ Words don’t come with only human sympathy. His Words weren’t hollow. When Jesus said to this woman, “Don’t cry,” it came with the power and experience of complete restoration and healing. This woman not only heard His Words, but experienced the true compassion and mercy of our Lord on her life. The compassion and mercy of our Lord who has all power and authority over even the power of sin and death. The Centurion understood the power of Jesus’ Words, “Just say the Word and my servant will be healed!” When Jesus speaks, “Don’t cry,” to us it comes with His compassionate power. Let us trust in His compassion for our sorrows and bitterness. Let us trust His compassion to give us a new and living hope. May He help us not to rely on anything, but on His mercy and compassion alone.

There is one other thing I’d like to share from today’s passage: Why did Jesus heal this woman’s son and not the many other widows who lost their sons? It was because Jesus in the body actually came upon this woman in her time of grief and sorrow. There were surly other women who also suffered a similar situation as this woman, but whose son was not raised from the dead. Was it because Jesus did not have compassion on them? The truth is that Jesus loves the whole world, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.

But Jesus had only one body. And He has now called us to be the light and salt of this world. He called us to be shepherds of His lost and brokenhearted flock. We are His ambassadors to this sin sick world, where death still holds its power and sway over people’s lives. “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring Good News.” Each of us came to our Lord’s mercy and compassion because someone came and shared the Good News of our Lord with us. His Word could take effect in our lives because someone shared His Word with us. In the same way, there are many today who are suffering with no hope in this world. Death reigns over their lives. They suffer in great grief and agony and bitterness of soul. Drugs harm our children. Apathy gnaws away at our people. Greed and pleasure seeking destroy countless lives. It’s all around us. We see it in our colleges and work places and everywhere we go. We are to be the one who shows Jesus’ compassion and mercy to. We are to give them the Word of God, that they may experience His compassion personally. May God help us to remember what we have been called to and why. May God help us to not shrink back, but all the more share our Lord Jesus’ compassion and His Word to this generation.

One Word: Jesus’ compassion our true hope.